When pedestrians are nearly hit in a crosswalk and shout an obscenity at the driver, is the takeaway from that also that they should just be run over next time, or do you reserve your completely insane sense of "might makes right" driver entitlement exclusively for cyclists?
People are genetically programmed with a "fight or flight" mechanism. When someone endangers a person's well-being through gross incompetence, it is not that unusual to have an initial reaction of anger. I'm not saying it is a great thing, or helpful, or that when it happens to me it is a particularly proud moment. I'm just saying it is a pretty normal reaction for someone that nearly got ran over by a car,
On the other hand, I'd like to think that for the person who made the error, and nearly seriously harmed someone, that it is in fact not a perfectly normal reaction to think "I'll just run the prick over next time." That sounds more like the reaction of someone who should never be allowed to drive a car under any circumstances.
Usually what I do it apologize to the person because I truly feel bad that I almost hit them...however, when I get a perosn freaking out and screaming at me that I almost hit them I tell them " Yes, I Almost hit you but I didn't....see,I am stopped...if I had hit you , you would be laying on the road , now get the F out of here...sometimes they spend far too much time yelling and screaming about things that I already am aware of.
Edited by HB, 12 May 2017 - 05:16 AM.