Since we've been living the dream of a parent with dementia for almost 13 years I'll jump in if I may...
First assisted living is not dementia care: assisted living is just that - a facility for those with their mental faculties wholly or mostly intact but who because of physical challenges (immobility or at least very restricted mobility due to bad hips, arthritis, blindness etc., or simple aging and are unsteady on their feet) - require assistance in their day to day living activities. Therefore typically this is a safe, secure environment including a dining room & food and other personal services because they can't get out shopping for example, or even move about safely under their own steam. But otherwise they can communicate and interact normally with their fellow humans....
Dementia care is the polar opposite: those poor souls have little to zero cognitive function and therefore require - yes, an institution, regardless of what pretty terminology you wish to wrap it in - that provides all possible needs that a human being requires to exist: light, heat, food, warmth, security, and above all assistance with their most basic bodily functions including eating, combing their hair, bushing their teeth and 101 other things I won't mention but that you can easily imagine. Most of them not very pretty.
And TJV I don't quite know what to make of your comment. What are you talking about "not saving for retirement" and that this is what you get? Huh...?
This facility is primarily a dementia institution: if - if - when you are old and enfeebled but somehow manage to avoid any of the multiple forms of dementia then maybe having a separate this or that will be feasible, if its truly that important to you.
But what if when you are old and half blind and deaf and suffering from the ravages of dementia? Where exactly is it that you imagine you will be living? I'll tell you, assuming when and if you get to that state you're actually still breathing. You will very likely live in one of these places. I would dearly love to see the facility you mention BTW. It has to be an assisted living facility because I've seen just about all the dementia places over 13 years on the south island and many on the mainland, including the so-called Palace on the North Shore, straddling North and West Vancouver.
The North Shore is home to many people with lots and lots of $$$$$ including a close friend's widowed and dementia-wracked father. In his prime he owned the second largest independent advertising firm in BC, and was a multi, multi millionaire who certainly didn't worry about 'saving for retirement'.
In his present "home", aka facility, aka institution, for which he pays $11,000/mo - chump change for him - rest very assured he does_not have a separate bedroom nor a separate living room regardless of how much they charge him.
Like the vast majority of these places - including the Quadra/Hillside one - he has one room (quite large in his case, naturally), and a separate bathroom. That's it. His flat screen TV is bolted to the wall opposite his bed. He has a 'kitchen' about ten feet from the bed, consisting of a tiny table with two chairs, and a shelving unit with a coffee machine and a microwave - neither of which he can operate so to be safe they simply unplug them when family isn't there to oversee him, since he can't figure out the concept of plugging them into a socket. Fortunately.
Of all the 'old age homes' I've seen there is one that I can recall that provides separate bedrooms - and it happens to be the most expensive such assisted living (not dementia care) facility in the south island region, quite beyond the means of most people - including the vast majority of those who have diligently "saved for retirement" all their working lives. Very few of even those people can bear the burden of the $7000+/month this particular facility charges its residents. So forgive me if your comments about 'saving for retirement' ring a bit hollow. Since the overwhelming majority of the population aren't multimillionaires, and a significant proportion will develop some form of dementia - regardless of how much money they saved for retirement - YES they will wind up in very likely something "like this place...".
And really when you are asleep 22/24 hours, drooling all over yourself, and the biggest expense on your unit is exemplified by the Depends you and everyone else is wearing all the time (not that you will notice or care), please explain why you would worry about a separate bedroom or living space? Because I can tell you from hard won experience your family and loved ones coming to visit you on your final lap of life, certainly won't give a rat's patoot. Nor will you.
We had the damned good fortune of having parents that not only saved for their declining years, but also a mother with a strong nursing pension, and a house/property near UVic that we were able to sell at near peak of a red hot real estate market. All combined, in addition to their investments, her care costs have been and will be easily met and absorbed and the estate will in fact make money. Not everyone however - including millions of hard working people who have also 'saved for retirement' - will have the advantages which we thankfully enjoyed and will continue to do so until her passing. Sometimes how and where someone spends their final years depends as much on good fortune and luck as much as good planning.....
I have now jumped off the soapbox.