People are hoping for "Walker stories", so here is my story about Shawna Walker.
About 13 years ago I met Shawna at a ladies group. She didn't know me. To say that I was a "basket case" back then is an understatement! I was cracking up. My father was dying a slow death from a degenerative disease. My passive aggressive mother (now deceased) was having a lot of fun driving me crazy. My marriage had just broken down because I had discovered that my then husband was living a double life. (Don't ask). I was building a house. I was extremely worried about my children, who were young at the time. They were cracking up also. I was so stressed out; worried; angry; and upset I could hardly function. Started hitting the bottle to try to sleep. VERY bad idea. At the group I was crying, ranting, angry, and "beside myself". I bet I was cursing too. It is an embarrassing memory. One lady snickered. Others were shocked I think (gentile gathering), and some were very supportive, including Shawna. She did not judge me as many did at that nightmare time in my life. People were understandably backing away, but I couldn't get it together to pretend I was fine. I actually ended up in the hospital for a brief period. Kids and I are all better now ..... thank you for asking.
When I got home I thought "They won't want anything more to do with me" then the 'phone rang. It was Shawna. She asked me "What are you afraid of?". We talked for a long time, and she was very kind; understanding; and helpful. We are not close although I know a couple of people that are close to her and keep up with her life that way. Anyone who looks at Shawna and thinks she has had a "free pass" in life is mistaken. As well as being dignified, competent, hard working and beautiful, she is (((MUCH))) loved and I know she is a very loyal wife (not a crime), and a wonderful mother. She is not a fraudster, con artist, heartless, grifter, greedy or all the other names being bandied about under the blanket term "The Walkers".
I understand that people are hurting and feel betrayed/abused and I feel for them .... but I just want to speak up for a nice lady that reached out to me when my world was falling apart. I will never forget her kindness to me.
Not going to enter into any discussions. I have said my piece. Enjoy your day.
MacBooger