Victoria, c’mon. This isn’t a big city. We don’t need this cold, callous attitude
Hmmm. But I thought Victoria was a notoriously unfriendly city? Longstanding reputation as such going back a few decades? We've discussed it on this board several times.
People are people. If you're a jerk, you're a jerk (VVers should understand this better than most). Doesn't matter if the population of your city is 178 thousand or 622 thousand or 5 million and five. Also, if you're in a hurry, you're in a hurry. Doesn't matter what the population of your city is. Your kid is waiting for you. Your exam starts at the scheduled time and if you're late you flunk.
I'm not defending impatient jerks. I'm merely pointing out that there's nothing new going on here. One of the ugliest freak-outs I ever witnessed in my life was at the exit to the HBC parkade back in the day (1993?). A pedestrian gave holy hell to an old lady pulling forward in her car. But if that pedestrian's kid had terminal cancer and if his marriage was falling apart, is there really any sense in expecting him to demonstrate a stronger degree of self-control simply because he lives in Victoria instead of in Tucson?
I'm reminded of the "Victoria's street people are harmless" thing. They must be harmless, because Victoria is smaller than [insert some larger place here], and thus we can comfortably dismiss the various random stabbing murders and attempted murders on Douglas Street. Those same random stabbing murders and attempted murders would be evidence of a problem in Jacksonville or Quebec City, but in Victoria we don't need to act like they're worth noting.
References to how big Victoria is or is not tend to be non sequiturs in such circumstances, is my point.
And obviously many of the people you encounter during your day aren't necessarily even "Victorian" to begin with. How many pissed-off New Yorkers & Torontonians were in the mix there when the unfortunate Facebooker was stuck at Cook and Pandora for 45 minutes? Was anybody checking the IDs of those unfriendly drivers, cyclists, and pedestrians?