It's more that we as a society continue to judge people against gendered standards. Women are expected to be many things, including docile, humble, slim, beautiful, gracious, motherly, etc. Any time a woman acts in a way that is antithetical to this image, she gets attacked by the press (see all the headlines about Hilary Clinton being frumpy or shrewish). Historically, men have been less likely to be called out on bullying-type behaviours because the image we have of manliness praises so many of these behaviours (consider the "locker room talk" of Donald Trump).
This hurts men, too. If you listen to the rhetoric of a lot of the young "alt-right," you'll hear them using terms like "cuck" and "beta." The implication is that men who don't fit into the traditional alpha-male role are somehow lesser.
None of this means that we can't call out Elizabeth May on her alleged behaviour. But it does mean that when we are calling politicians out on their behaviour, we need to mindful about whether the behaviour is really harmful (shouting at employees), or whether it's just outside of our conceptions of gender (a woman having a strong opinion, a man crying, etc.) We also need to be more willing to call out male politicians on their bullying.
You came through some kind of time portal perhaps?
Women are expected to be many things, including docile, humble, slim, beautiful, gracious, motherly, etc. Any time a woman acts in a way that is antithetical to this image, she gets attacked by the press
Actually, I'd like to see a single female character presented in the popular media who is most of those things and who is not presented simply in order to ridicule her as a "trad" weakling who needs to "grow a pair", as locker room lingo puts it.
From Wonder Woman to Powrr-Grrl - or however it's spelled - most models I see applaud girls and women who manifest stereotypically male characteristics.
The only more common meme in advertising and popular media is the ridiculing and demeaning of men: this schtick is so predictable now it is as much tedious as insulting. It must still be popular with a lot of women as so many advertisers continue to use it as their default.
"Happy wife, happy life", a very popular phrase these days. "You either cater to me or I'll make sure your life isn't happy." So much for "equality". So much for a partnership of equal effort. "Make me happy or I'll take you to the cleaners"? Happier without maybe.
As for Hilary Clinton, "shrew" hardly begins to describe her; do some research on her and her husband.
Ms. May in my opinion has a personality that clashes with what she thinks, or wants us to think, are her values. We all have lapses, and if we are suitably and sincerely apologetic, we deserve to be forgiven. If we deny, distort, blame others or otherwise refuse to come clean, something more profound is going on.
Some people on both the left and the right seem to think that their opinions rather than their behaviors are the measure of their characters. This self-excusal they often extend to those public figures they agree with ideologically.
When we refuse to condemn, or attempt to excuse, in our ideological allies what we would condemn in those we are opposed to, we are merely demonstrating personal and intellectual dishonesty.
Bad manners are bad manners, period.
Edited by Old Esquimalt, 31 January 2018 - 01:13 PM.